People's relationships with labels are based in power and empowerment. This is even more critical to understand in relationships built around power imbalances. While there is a lot of baggage attached to them, labels can be useful tools in communicating and creating our selves and our life stories. This class will review different motivations and […]
Being new to anything can be intimidating, stressful and overwhelming, we all want to be safe & stay safe so this class will cover: • Consent • Some legalese • Using/being aware of safe & proper play techniques • Coping with subspace • Administering aftercare • Negotiating & setting up a scene • What to […]
Creating a Plan for success that works best for you and your partner(s) can make all the difference between longevity or loss. Contracts are one way of communicating and defining not only your approach but your needs, responsibilities, and expectations within a power exchange dynamic. PlaineJane will discuss types, parts, and useful components of a […]
Temporary body modification using pumping equipment can be a gender affirming/bending and sexually gratifying kink with ties into medical play, objectification, and dollification. We will discuss various types of pumping devices, the risks involved with this kink, tips we've found useful, and other important information, and we will demo some of the pumping devices in […]
In this class we cover the basics of bootblacking, and go beyond, I will show what's in my kit, explain a general timeline for leather care, and delve into high shine tips and tricks. Finally, we round off the class by discussing how to care for leather toys, and how to interact with bootblacks. This […]
So you’ve found that special someone that makes you feel the feels and makes you want the wants but what now? How do you expand and take your relationship to the next level of power exchange? How do you know when you and your partner are ready for a power exchange relationship? PlaineJane will discuss […]
Join @DanAndDawn, a polyamorous couple since 2001 and authors of The Polyamory Toolkit, for an advanced class that gives participants tools to break free of the patterns and attitudes that keep us trapped in the fear and jealousy. This presentation focuses on actual steps to wipe the slate clean of patterns of the past and how […]
How can you provide service to a service receiver if you can't be in their presence? Whether we serve one at a distance due to global reasons, or because an online interaction brought two hearts separated by miles of ocean together, there is still many ways to have a healthy, happy and satisfying power exchange […]
Calling all “s” types, or folx on the “right side of the slash”. Have you ever been accused of being “bratty,” “difficult,” “contrary,” or just downright disobedient when that really isn’t your intention at all? If so, then this is the class for you! Join Lady Steele as she shows you how to be sassy […]
Much of what we do in the kink world is uncharted (or relatively uncharted) territory. There are few manuals in the world that instruct you on how to do some of the more extreme things we do. So we often learn by doing, through well-researched and risk conscientious experimentation. Sadistic Science! In this interactive discussion, […]