‘Better Brutality’ focuses on creating a connection through pain and using different techniques to foster closeness and intimacy during a scene. Much of BDSM is in the exchange of intimacy, trust and pain. Being the cause of someone’s pain can be a thrilling and heady experience, and it can also be the a conduit for intimacy and a deeper connection.
Bio:
My name is Bher and I’m a Queer Person of Color who has been involved in the NYC kink community for the last seven years. I went to a play party when I was 18 and decided to stay in the community ever since. I identify as a Sadist, focus on what I like to call “creative play” which is using found objects and ridiculous situations to cause humiliation and/or pain.