ONLINE – Trials & Tribulations of Dating While Poly with MasterLolaSmiles

I am a married poly dominant leather female and I’ll be talking about the challenges faced when trying to date. Will discuss what polyamory is, the misconceptions people have about what being poly is, the stigma of what society sees married people dating and how to cope with the pitfalls of it all.

Ms. Lola Smiles is a Latina Femdom Fatale from Long Island, NY who has been in the lifestyle for over 25 years – a BDSM educator & presenter and event promoter for 8 years. As a presenter/educator Ms Lola Smiles has presented on topics including Consent & Negotiations, Scene Etiquette, Vetting, CBT, Impact Play, Wax Play, Breath Play, Dungeon Monitors (DM) Training, to name a few. She has also participated and moderated a variety of panels on dominance and People of Color (POC) in the Scene. Ms. Lola has been honored to present for Sanctuary Events, Avant-Garde, Pangea, TES, SCK, LILNR-LICK, The Steam Factory, EPIC, Weekend Reunion, Feel My Breath, DomCon LA, LEASH Weekend, Jax Fet Fest, Dating Kinky and ONYX Pearls NE. Ms. Lola founded SCK Events and House of SCK. SCK Events hosts munches and a variety of upscale events and parties on LI & NYC. Adapting to the post COVID world, Ms Lola & SCK host the F#@k You Coronavirus Virtual Events. SCK’s mantra is – Corrupting the World one vanilla at a time.®

To register:

MEMBERS -$10

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2. To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
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Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.

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If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

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