Because of the holiday, the meeting shifts to the 4th Monday this month. Open to all current members. This is a hybrid meeting; held in person in Manhattan and online. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on Feb 1. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not […]
Wanna hit em’ where it hurts? Of course you do! Join us as we explore the various deliciously devious ways to torture your favorite fleshy duo. We'll discuss intimately the details of anatomy and functions. Learn why people are drawn to this play, the risks involved focusing on safety tips, and choosing CBT toys and […]
No better way to kick the winter blahs than hanging out with kinky folks! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the final Wednesday. Come join us! Wednesday, February 28th 7:30pm Skylight Diner 402 W 34th St. (@ 9th […]
Join Ramon for a celebration of the rich history of caning as a form of corporal punishment throughout the world. Learn about the materials, vendors, and resources for this simple, yet oh so versatile and fun method of inducing pain. You’ll also learn various methods for precision striking of various parts of your partner's body. […]
Warning Signs and Red Flags: how do you decide if a Dominant is right for you? This class will be a mix of storytelling and discussion. Learn to navigate the dynamics of submissive relationships by identifying red flags and signs in Dominant Women. Gain insights from three decades of a submissive's experience to make informed […]
This introductory class discusses being a trauma-aware kinkster. From being awareness of spacing and distance to setting up a play space and write advertisements for events, all kinksters can use trauma-informed mindfulness to create safer spaces. You will learn what trauma is (and what it isn't), how it happens, about trauma dumping, trauma reactions, post-traumatic […]
Whether you dream of humans flying and suffering in hemp rope, or if you read detective stories just to get to the point where the damsel in distress gets bound and gagged by the villains, we invite you to join the first Bondage Special Interest Group (SIG) social and demonstration of the year. Whatever your […]
Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on March 1. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org We have board vacancies! Please click here to find out requirements and consider nominating yourself. Need to renew your […]
What is needle play? It is different things to different people but for Bumper, it’s art. The idea of turning someone’s body into a canvas to create beautiful artwork, is their passion. This class is designed to give you basic knowledge of Needle Play. We will discuss what it is, why we do it, how […]
You Get A Boundary! And YOU Get A Boundary! Boundaries in kink, from the personal to the community. What is a boundary? How is it different from a rule or a demand? In this presentation and discussion, Nookie will cover the basics of boundaries, and the specifics of boundaries in kink relationships, then we'll have […]
Come join @Goddess_Narcissa and the TES Femme Dominance Special Interest Group as we celebrate Women's History Month. We will be hosting the TES Hump Day Munch on Wednesday, March 27th. Come join us! Wednesday, March 27th 7:30pm Skylight Diner 402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave) New York, NY 10001 Open to femme and feminine […]
Interested in exploring the world of BDSM and kink? Turn your intrigue and interest into knowledge and learn how to safely navigate a kinky journey in our casual class setting. Regardless of your level of experience, our BDSM 101 class will help you explore with confidence. Following the class, there will be a short scene […]