Dreaming of a kinky getaway, but feeling overwhelmed by the idea of attending a kink convention? This class will teach you how to create your own small-scale kinky vacation with your partner or a small group of friends. Class topics include: How to identify a rental property that’s suitable for a kinky vacation (and what’s […]

The “Areas of Control” are sections of a person's life in which authority can be exercised. The categories are divided by type. They include things like medical decisions, hair color, educational opportunities, diet and many more. This quick reference guide lays out each “area” and its subsequent categories. It is designed to get you thinking […]

Open to all current members.  Information on how to join will be distributed to the membership on March 1.  If you are a member, did not receive this information, and want to join, please email secretary@tes.org.

Join us for this blowjob workshop designed to take your skills to the next level! We’ll start with an anatomy lesson that I guarantee will be much more interesting (and inclusive!) than the one you probably got in high school. Then we’ll go on to discuss enough hand and mouth techniques that you’re sure to […]

If you've ever heard the phrase "you're too ___ for bondage" this class is probably for you. We'll cover a variety of bondage methods that can be used for different ability statuses in a fluid class structure so we can address individual concerns as they arise. Be sure to bring your favorite bondage tools whether […]

After a brief interruption, TES's monthly munch is back! Come join us as winter thaws into spring! Whether you're new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we're excited to see you! The munch will be at: Thursday, March 24th, at 7pm at the Skylight Diner 402 W 34th St. (@ 9th […]

Female Led dynamics have always had a significant place in not only historical influences but have had cultural impact as well. From royal dynasties to empirical rule, women have always possessed the ability to stimulate change and sometimes to even incite war. While not the standard hetro-normative relationship construct within what is seen as “modern” […]