Who said rope had to be all about being nice and sensual? This class focuses on nasty things you can do with rope to punish and manipulate your subject. Various Hojo Jitsu and western prisoner style ties and endurance positions will be explored – as well as positions designed to hold your subject in place […]

You don’t need floggers or ropes to make someone beg for mercy, or to push all of your partners' subbiest buttons. With some creativity (and maybe a little hypnosis), you can achieve all of these effects with pleasure as easily as you can with pain. This class will touch on techniques for hypnotic pleasure, and […]

Characters are the vehicles your reader will use to explore your worlds, so it's important to make them shine. Join the TES Writers' Group for a discussion about how to make realistic, relatable characters, regardless of genre or style. Optional Assignment: Write one to three paragraphs about a complete stranger you see around the city. […]

One of the most misunderstood and under explored subgroups of the kink community is fetish workers. Slut shamed, expected to offer any and all kink and/or sexual services without prior negotiation, told they aren’t ‘real’ Doms or subs, and in various ways excluded from the general kink population, professional fetish workers have in the past not […]

THIS CLASS HAS BEEN CANCELLED DUE TO SPACE CONFLICTS. Look for it to be rescheduled March 7th!   In 2011, Barkas started to develop his personal way of doing ropes, which was very stormy and overwhelming. His Sensei Osada Steve called it ranboo and since then, this way of doing ropes became one of the […]

Open and free to all members with a membership card. Come hear about the work the board has been doing and learn how to get involved!

Learn how to arouse, tempt and tease your partner! In this partner-oriented class, we’ll go over the basics for how to restrain your partner then Up the Level by adding the nuances that make bondage Sexy and Hot. In the first half of the class we’ll be going over the techniques of how to tie […]

Using a mixture of our insecurities, verbal abuse, situational embarrassment, certain types of pain and restraint and humiliating tasks we will indulge our darker desires in either giving or receiving humiliation. Through this, we facilitate growth in our D/s scenes and relationships. Allowing the possibility of inducing subspace in our bottoms more deeply and quickly […]

There are many bottoms in the lifestyle with medical, physical or emotional issues that are often overlooked as play partners because of their ailments. Trophy Wife is going to lead an open panel discussion with medical & mental health professionals to educate the community on how to play safely with someone that may have a […]

Stay tuned for more info about this panel on mental health and kink! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with […]

Ever needed help with a vanilla need that doesn't mesh well with the kink lifestyle you live? Do you avoid a kinky health problem because you don't want the questions or worry? Want to learn about the kink-friendly option for getting or staying healthy? Join TES and all the kink friendly professionals we have collected […]

Curious about the heart of a sadist? Merriam-Webster defines sadism as "delight in cruelty.” Join us as MissL talks with some perfectly nice sadists about what they love to do and why they love to do it, and how they find delight in (consensual) cruelty. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal […]

No matter what techniques we learn in the practice of hypnokink, intimate hypnosis and erotic hypnosis, we continually encounter questions of ‘Now What?’ Whether advanced, novice, subjects, or hypnotist, how we approach this challenge can define both the quality of our scenes and the fundamental values we share with our partners as we pursue mutual […]