Take away models and terminology that will help you understand, negotiate, and (for s-types) explain your brand of submission. Learn about (a) 6 types of masochism, (b) 5 need centers of submissives, (c) 3 core languages of D/s, (d) 9 motivation types of service submissives, and (e) 2 distinct types of humiliation play. This class […]

Open to all current members.  The link to join will be distributed to members on November 1st.  If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive the link, please email secretary@tes.org

Just as rules and protocols vary in every relationship, so do the styles and techniques of behavior modification and obedience training for a slave that will yield the most accurate assessment of the Master. We will give various examples of techniques and strategies that worked for us to set clear expectations to ensure the Masters' […]

An open discussion on the perspective of gender as a spectrum and some of the issues that those on various points on the spectrum may encounter. In this discussion we will have an open forum for people to ask and answer questions surrounding the topic of different gender identifications as well as how they interact […]

Exploring BDSM through a lens of indigenous ideologies can be difficult. Learning to reindigenize and reclaim culture, spirituality, and fetishes is an art and skill. This class is an informal approach that will explore how to galvanize two seemingly polarized identities into one. This class is intended to engage, inform, and bring about discussion in […]

Whether you’re cruisin’ for a bruisin’ or looking to pull your favorite little slut over your knee for a spanking – preparing for an impact scene from either side of the slash can be intimidating. Luckily, this workshop covers everything you need to know to get started! From bare hands to paddles and from floggers […]

Open to all current members.  Information on how to join has been distributed to the membership.  If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please contact secretary@tes.org

No apologies for the pun, but be-weave it or not - learning to weave can be a great introduction to rope bondage. Weave patterns create the basis for many aesthetic and functional harnesses. And no knots are required! Attendees of this introductory rope class will learn to weave patterns for hand bondage, foot bondage, and […]

Please join us as we say goodbye to 2021 and look forward to a brighter, kinkier 2022! Come have a bite, mingle, and, if you like, participate in our holiday gift exchange (gifts in the $7-10 range suggested). Whether you're new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we're excited to see […]