ONLINE – Obedience with Lady Elaina

Join us for Obedience with @LadyElainaNY Often we don't like to think about the tougher aspects of what it is that we do, and not everyone even goes to the same place with things. But for those who practice M/s and D/s, nothing is possible without Obedience. It is not optional. If participating in a […]

$10 – $25

TES Final Thursday Munch: Back to School Edition

Summer has come to a close, and school is back in session, and we’re having visions of plaid skirts, knee socks, and ruler-wielding disciplinarians. So why not come and matriculate with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! Come […]

Whatever You Eat

ONLINE – Meet the Candidates for TES Board of Directors

Come join us and meet the candidates for this year's TES elections in this live online town hall. This is your opportunity to ask questions and find out where each candidate stands on the important issues affecting TES and the greater kink scene. The link to participate will be sent in your TES email newsletter […]

IN PERSON (!!!!) – bdsm 101: B is for Bondage with Bound2Fly

LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

A newcomers introduction to BDSM. In this discussion/workshop we’ll go over the basics as we learn to explore this exciting world safely. We’ll go over consent, negotiation, warm up, levels of play, playstyles, and of course bondage. Please bring 1-2 pieces of ¼” (6mm) rope, 25-30 ft in length. TES has returned to IN PERSON […]

$10 – $25

ONLINE – Beat Me, Eight To The Bar: Rhythmic Play with Bass_Instincts

Music surrounds us in play-spaces. Countless threads online discuss ideal music for scenes. This class discusses how to engage with the music, using rhythm to enhance your play. It's a technique that is adaptable to almost any implement, and can be as simple and minimal, or as sophisticated and brain-challenging as you want it to […]

$10 – $25

ONLINE – Wax On Wax Off with Kinbaku_Studio

Hot and sadistic or warm and sensual, maybe a little both, @Kinbaku_Studio will offer an introduction to the joys of wax play. Their mix of demonstrations, fun ideas to try, tempered with a touch of science and focused on safety, will let the attendees learn how to incorporate wax play into their kinky shenanigans. @Kinbaku_Studio […]

$10 – $25

N PERSON – TES Presents: Heavy Metal, or Fun with Toys that Lock with GregCuffs

Rope got you in a rut? Think a clove hitch is something you'll find in your spice rack? Join GregCuffs for an intro to metal bondage gear and a hands-on tour of selections from his extensive collection. He'll go over safety tips and other practical concerns, then show some variations on traditional handcuff use and […]

$10 – $25

ONLINE – TES 2023 Board of Directors Elections & Membership Meeting

This meeting is held twice yearly for the purpose of conducting official organization business and giving the membership an opportunity to be directly involved in that process. The fall meeting, usually held in October, is also when officers for the organization are elected. All members in good standing are entitled to attend and participate in […]

IN PERSON – Ready, Aim, Flog with sudisa

LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

Floggers are wonderful impact tools, from stingy to thuddy to sensual and all points in between. Let's put a flogger in your hands so you and your bottom can have as much fun as possible. This hands-on class will offer some ideas for you to add this versatile item to your repertoire and create fabulous […]

$10 – $25

ONLINE – Bedroom Rope Bondage with Kinbaku_Studio

Let's spice things up with a little bedroom rope bondage presented by @Kinbaku_Studio The class teaches attendees some fun rope ties to spice up their bedroom play time and turn up the heat on Sexy time. Be sure to drink plenty of water because it’s going to get hot in class! @Kinbaku_Studio has been practicing […]

$10 – $25