Geared To: Anyone who has experienced a dynamic breakdown, or who may want to understand the stages of mourning a dynamic breakdown. Dynamic breakdowns are usually painful, even when amicable. By understanding the steps in the grief process, learning how to cut ties, and bolstering ourselves with support, we can hopefully move from our emotional […]

Creating a Submissive Resume is a class where both new and experienced s-types can document their skills, abilities, training, and community involvement, to give to prospective Dominants or just to chart their own growth as an s-type. We will also discuss creating a resume to document presenter experience. Bio coming soon. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every […]

What does Alfred Pennyworth have in common with a freshmen pledge at a frat house? Almost nothing! Except that they've both devoted themselves to active roll submission through contractual service, as men. There is a huge framework for the feminine art of service in our culture, so much so that many folks associate service with […]

Biting is as sensual and complicated of an art as kissing, yet few practice it as much. In this workshop, you will learn and practice the seven sensual (and some sadistic) bites of the Kama Sutra, as well as biting safety. This is an interactive class so please bring a partner to nibble upon. @Schadenfreude is […]

Open to all current members.  Information on how to join will be distributed to the membership.  If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please email secretary@tes.org

People's relationships with labels are based in power and empowerment. This is even more critical to understand in relationships built around power imbalances. While there is a lot of baggage attached to them, labels can be useful tools in communicating and creating our selves and our life stories. This class will review different motivations and […]

Being new to anything can be intimidating, stressful and overwhelming, we all want to be safe & stay safe so this class will cover: • Consent • Some legalese • Using/being aware of safe & proper play techniques • Coping with subspace • Administering aftercare • Negotiating & setting up a scene • What to […]

Creating a Plan for success that works best for you and your partner(s) can make all the difference between longevity or loss. Contracts are one way of communicating and defining not only your approach but your needs, responsibilities, and expectations within a power exchange dynamic. PlaineJane will discuss types, parts, and useful components of a […]

Temporary body modification using pumping equipment can be a gender affirming/bending and sexually gratifying kink with ties into medical play, objectification, and dollification. We will discuss various types of pumping devices, the risks involved with this kink, tips we've found useful, and other important information, and we will demo some of the pumping devices in […]