You have seen people smoking cigars at events, but how do the worlds of smoking pleasure and fetish intersect? What does serving a cigar entail? Receiving this service? What do you do with the ash? Is there more to cigar play than just smoking the cigar? These questions will be answered as Lady Steele speaks […]

From Fetlife and Facebook to emails and tweets, how do you keep your private life private. While we use the internet every day, we often don't really think about all the ways our activities leave a trail that could lead to your privacy being violated or being outed publicly. The Internet is a big ball […]

Piercing doesn't have to just been metallic and medical. In this class we will discuss the details around using porcupine quills for piercing play. Class will include safety concerns, how to acquire quills, and techniques for play. A hands-on demo will be included if possible. I am JustRob or just Rob :) I identify with […]

Rescheduled from April--The link will be distributed to the membership in advance of the meeting.  If you are a member, did not receive the link on July 1, and would like to participate, please email secretary@tes.org

Information on how to join the meeting will be distributed to the membership in advance.  If you did not receive this information, are a member, and would like to join, please contact tes@tes.org

The traditional images of BDSM and Kink show long lithe bodies with minimal body fat in tiny outfits accentuating muscular sinewy forms. The fact of the matter is that image represents a small percentage of the kink community. There are many who have disabilities, some invisible, others very visible. In addition to our physical limitations, […]

Cuckolding is a hot trend online these days, but is it a viable kink? I'll give an enthusiastic YES! Not only is it a fun fetish for cuck and cuckoldress, but it actually enhances intimacy, love, creativity and fun in your relationship. Based on my popular 2 1/2 month online course, this class covers setting […]

In these uncertain times, we all have lots of questions. While we don't have the answers to your questions about the lockdown, we may be able to answer your questions about locking down your lover! Join Alex and Madeline, a kinky couple with 16 years of experience in the public BDSM scene, for a BDSM […]

Pandora was created from earth by the gods as the "gift of all." The creation stories of humans emerging from earth and objects are no less tantalizing today (Anyone hear of Westworld?). In our modern world we've come to fetishize and adore our dolls and bots and their creator/masters., From dust to circuitry, learn about […]