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In this discussion we will discuss Edge Play. We will explore what it is, the Pros and Cons of it, and some Best Practices for making the most of your […]

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Trying to navigate the mine field of developing a relationship is never easy. You must deal with personalities, interests, goals and other markers for compatibility. When we add to the […]

Change is inevitable, essential, but also, risky and can be scary! Join Dan & dawn, authors of The Polyamory Toolkit, as they explore and provide tools around change! When a […]

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Dehumanizing a partner can be a very dark activity or it can be very fun and cute. Doll play, normally considered a subset of dehumanization play, can also go either […]

Does your body or mind differ from others? Do you want to fly in rope but are wheelchair bound? Many of us live with different disabilities, including xioayi. With a […]

People participate in Bondage, Discipline, and Sadism/Masochism, and do so while not knowing the potential legal pitfalls. It is time to get down to brass tacks. What legal dangers are […]

Whether you’re a masochistic power bottom or a shy service slut, you know bottoming requires skill–skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. Written specifically for s-types who want to broaden […]