STARTING AT 8PM: Group Sex with Vonka

The threesome or orgy fantasy is a classic. Yet group sex often plays out disappointingly in real life without proper planning and communication. There’s a lot to consider in advance and so much of it is hard to predict without practical experience. Learn from examples of others’ mistakes as we discuss how to bring these […]

Intro to Scene Building: Mood Setting and Intentional Tool Use

Join Lady Euphoria for a workshop on scene building - a topic that isn't commonly discussed, we all know building a memorable scene isn't always easy or intuitive for everyone! This workshop will discuss the basics to creating a smooth scene: mood setting and intentional tool use. We'll talk about the nuances of a play […]

Hypno Group: Getting In Touch with Kinesthetic Inductions with Sex Obsessed Lesbian

Lots of us do lots of our hypnosis via the internet, listening to files and reading from the same old scripts. But how do you hypnotize people who prefer the physical to the auditory (listening to your soothing voice) or the visual (fixating on your shiny pocket-watch)? And what kind of fun, whacky ways can […]

TES Presents: Intro to Candle Wax Play

This class is designed to introduce people to candle wax play. I'll go over general safety tips, where one may source candles, and an overview from the Top and Bottom perspectives. Nox has been active in the NJ scene since 2012. They've been playing with candle wax for about the same length of time and […]

TES Presents: Fire Play 101 with NYCJosh

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Both a mix of pleasure and pain, fear and awe, fire invokes something primal in all of us. An element that is both feared and revered, man has tried to control fire since the beginning of our time. Come and learn from this untamable element from Sir Josh. This class is designed for the beginning […]

Bondage Group: Zero to Fun on Day One with BoundtoFly

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Want to explore rope, but confused by all the apparent complexity? Scared by the possible risks of this style of play? In this fast paced workshop, learn the basics of safe rope bondage. and go home and have safe erotic play - today! This class, designed for newcomers to rope as well as kink, goes […]

Black Leather: A History of Black/POC folks in the Leather and BDSM Communities

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

When discussing Leather and BDSM history most often we hear histories based in the white gay male community. Fact of the matter is, the history of Blacks and other People of Color in this lifestyle is a long and storied one. Sir Guy helps bring this history alive. SirGuy lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. […]

TES Board of Directors Meeting

Open to all current members. This meeting will be held online only. Details for how to join the meeting will be available shortly.

Better Bottoming with Bex

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Bottoms bring more to the table than just a good butt! Bottoming requires skill – skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. This workshop will help bottoms develop and hone the skills they’ll need most, and will help tops better understand the tools they need to train the perfect plaything. We’ll cover how to embody […]

Intro to Dark Ageplay with MorriganMaeve

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Class description coming soon. From pageant winner to kinky sinner, this former Girl Scout and girl-next-door from New Jersey has been stirring up the scene for the better part of a decade. Since 2012, @MorriganMaeve has been a staff member for Conduit Enterprises (New Jersey’s premiere monthly sex-positive kink/fetish/BDSM party). She’s the founder of Conduit’s […]