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Learn how to arouse, tempt and tease your partner! In this partner-oriented class, we’ll go over the basics for how to restrain your partner then Up the Level by adding the nuances that make bondage Sexy and Hot. In the first half of the class we’ll be going over the techniques of how to tie […]

Using a mixture of our insecurities, verbal abuse, situational embarrassment, certain types of pain and restraint and humiliating tasks we will indulge our darker desires in either giving or receiving humiliation. Through this, we facilitate growth in our D/s scenes and relationships. Allowing the possibility of inducing subspace in our bottoms more deeply and quickly […]

There are many bottoms in the lifestyle with medical, physical or emotional issues that are often overlooked as play partners because of their ailments. Trophy Wife is going to lead an open panel discussion with medical & mental health professionals to educate the community on how to play safely with someone that may have a […]

Stay tuned for more info about this panel on mental health and kink! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with […]

February may be the shortest month of the year, but it’s jam-packed with holidays, and this year, Mardi Gras and Valentine’s Day are literally back-to-back. Join TES on Saturday, February 24th as we celebrate this one-two punch with our kinky holiday mash-up, the Flirt-de-lis Masquerade Play Party!!! In the spirit of the celebration, masks, bodypaint, […]

Ever needed help with a vanilla need that doesn't mesh well with the kink lifestyle you live? Do you avoid a kinky health problem because you don't want the questions or worry? Want to learn about the kink-friendly option for getting or staying healthy? Join TES and all the kink friendly professionals we have collected […]

Curious about the heart of a sadist? Merriam-Webster defines sadism as "delight in cruelty.” Join us as MissL talks with some perfectly nice sadists about what they love to do and why they love to do it, and how they find delight in (consensual) cruelty. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal […]

No matter what techniques we learn in the practice of hypnokink, intimate hypnosis and erotic hypnosis, we continually encounter questions of ‘Now What?’ Whether advanced, novice, subjects, or hypnotist, how we approach this challenge can define both the quality of our scenes and the fundamental values we share with our partners as we pursue mutual […]