Creating A Vision Board For Your D/s Relationship with Girl Stacey

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

A vision board is a powerful tool that can help clarify, concentrate and maintain focus on a specific life goal. It can include words, phrases or sentences that affirm our intentions.We can use a vision board to represent what we want in our ideal D/s relationship)s). girl stacey is a Birth Doula, a Life Coach, […]

Hypno SIG: Hypnosis and D/s

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Fantasies about hypnosis often focus on control. While the hypnotist does not have to be dominant, and the subject does not have to be submissive, hypnotic play often explores those tropes. In this class, we’ll see how D/s fantasies come to life through hypnosis, in both short-term play and long-term dynamics. Taught by a Dominant […]

TES Novices and Newcomers Munch: Soft & Sweet

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with […]

The Soft Objects Party

Join us for a kinky exploration of texture and vibe. Come through in your velvets, feathers, satins, flannels, fleeces, fuzzies, furs, and fluffs. Show up at your most chill, flexible, patient, fluid, gentle, and malleable. Challenge yourself to inflict and receive new levels of pain (and maybe even pleasure) using the most tender, quiet, delicate, […]

Knife play 101 with Kanan

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Interested in bringing a knife to a kink scene? This class will be an overview of knife play including safety and cleaning, different types of knives, ways to incorporate knife play into your scenes, sensation vs. cutting (blood play), how to negotiate a knife play scene, and what to do if things go wrong (first […]

Boot play with Virgil

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

This class will be a risk-aware workshop on boot play covering both physical and psychological topics. It will teach basic techniques and safety for beginners, and advanced techniques for those with prior experience. There will be a live demonstration and an opportunity for Q&A both during and after. Virgil is a bi, polyamorous mostly-top who […]

Bondage Group

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Stay tuned for more info! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. Buzzer #013 TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

CANCELLED! Kinky Board Game Social with Heliosphere NY

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Unfortunately this kinky board game social has been cancelled. Look for it to be rescheduled in the next few weeks. We hope to see you then!

Board of Directors Meeting

Free and open to all current members. This meeting will be conducted via teleconference, The instructions for joining the call can be found in the Monthly Mirror Newsletter, which all members should receive. If you did not receive the instructions, please contact secretary@tes.org and they will be given to you.

POSTPONED – i AM a slave…now what? with slave mike

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Due to recommendations from the medical community, this event has been postponed. Keep an eye out for the rescheduled date. In the meantime, stay healthy! As a slave who has found their slave heart, one question that is realized is what do i do next? Where do i go to learn? How do i navigate […]