POSTPONED – Fire Play with Shermie

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Due to recommendations from the medical community, this event has been postponed. Keep an eye out for the rescheduled date. In the meantime, stay healthy! Shermie will teach the basics of “safe” fire play, as oxymoronic as it sounds, including fire fleshing and fire cupping. Within the “What It Is That We Do” community, fire […]

POSTPONED – Non-rope Bondage Skillshare

Due to recommendations from the medical community, this event has been postponed. Keep an eye out for the rescheduled date. In the meantime, stay healthy! Join bondage enthusiast BlueFluke37 to trade tips and talk about your favorite form(s) of non-rope bondage. He will be bringing his collection of non-rope bondage gear, which will be available […]

ONLINE – TES presents: BDSM Q&A: Ask the Weirdos Edition

In these uncertain times, we all have lots of questions. While we don't have the answers to your questions about the lockdown, we may be able to answer your questions about locking down your lover! Join Alex and Madeline, a kinky couple with 16 years of experience in the public BDSM scene, for a BDSM […]

ONLINE – TES Presents: slave-ability – Being a 24/7 slave with a disability.

Join slave_ela in this workshop exploring Kink and Power Exchange with a Disability. slave_ela will describe her personal journey as she entered the kink community in Philadelphia, PA as a woman with a physical disability and over time became a 24/7 slave. slave_ela lives in a a 24/7 Total Power Exchange dynamic with her Sir […]

ONLINE – TES presents: Non-Monogamy & the Law

What legal dangers are inherent to being non-monogamous? The simple truth is, legal issues abound when it comes to participating in the non-monogamy lifestyle. It can affect several areas in a non-monogamous person’s life, including family, criminal, estate planning, healthcare, employment, business, and even landlord/tenant law. How can you prepare yourself for the worst case […]

ONLINE – TES Presents: Creating a Submissive Resume

Creating a Submissive Resume is a class where both new and experienced s-types can document their skills, abilities, training, and community involvement, to give to prospective Dominants or just to chart their own growth as an s-type. We will also discuss creating a resume to document presenter experience. girl stacey is a Birth Doula, a […]

TES Board of Directors Meeting

Information on how to join the meeting has already been distributed to the membership.  If you did not receive this information, are a member, and would like to join, please contact tes@tes.org

ONLINE – TES presents: Discovering Dominance

Many and varied are the guides and resources for those who are new to the submissive lifestyle, but those who are new to the Dominant side appear to have limited avenues to explore. Are the expectations for the Dominant in relationships higher? Should they be? What types of skills are essential? Are they physical skills, […]

ONLINE – TES Presents:Being a Slave: My Path, My Journey

As a slave who has found their slave heart, one question that is realized is what do i do next? Where do i go to learn? How do i navigate into this community? This community has many different avenues, and many different paths, and even though you may not know what you want yet, this […]

ONLINE – TES presents: Long Distance Dynamics with @MasterKaddan

This discussion focuses on Long Distance M/s, how it can work, personal experience, what M/s looks like in a distance dynamic, and what principles of M/s may be applied. By the end of this discussion, participants will learn: How to define M/s dynamics for themselves What defines long distance How to get to know someone […]