BDSM 101 Q&A with BexTalksSex

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Join us for an informal Q&A with one of our favorite sex (and sexy) educators - Bex! This is your chance to ask those kinky questions you've been meaning to but have't found the right TES meeting for yet. Bex is a NYC based sex educator, speaker, and podcaster. He’s been a proud and undeniable […]

Bondage Group: Intro to Rope Styles & Interaction Ideas

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Zero-Gi and samjay team up to give you ideas about ways to tie your partner that map intent to interaction to produce consent-consistent connection. Dispelling various dogmas on purist rope styles, permission is granted to evolve your own unique way of communicating. The class involves some discussion, brief demonstrations and a whole lot of opportunities […]

Handheld Fucking Machines from Drilldos to Fucksaws

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Fucking machines in general are one of the coolest and most exciting pieces of equipment one can use when exploring the sexual side of our world. It can also be one of the least accessible and riskiest activities, which is why it's often harder to establish a foundation of skills or opportunity to participate under […]

TES Board of Directors Meeting

Free and open to all current members. This meeting will be accessible via teleconference. Details will be available via the monthly membership-only email.

H.O.T.: Hands Only Torture

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

All too often, we are told that BDSM must utilize tools and toys to be effective. In this presentation Sir Guy and his girl Harley show how simply using one's hands can provide an intimate, yet power scene without the use of any outside implements. SirGuy lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. He's been active […]

Creating A Vision Board For Your D/s Relationship with Girl Stacey

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

A vision board is a powerful tool that can help clarify, concentrate and maintain focus on a specific life goal. It can include words, phrases or sentences that affirm our intentions.We can use a vision board to represent what we want in our ideal D/s relationship)s). girl stacey is a Birth Doula, a Life Coach, […]

Hypno SIG: Hypnosis and D/s

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Fantasies about hypnosis often focus on control. While the hypnotist does not have to be dominant, and the subject does not have to be submissive, hypnotic play often explores those tropes. In this class, we’ll see how D/s fantasies come to life through hypnosis, in both short-term play and long-term dynamics. Taught by a Dominant […]

TES Novices and Newcomers Munch: Soft & Sweet

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with […]

The Soft Objects Party

Join us for a kinky exploration of texture and vibe. Come through in your velvets, feathers, satins, flannels, fleeces, fuzzies, furs, and fluffs. Show up at your most chill, flexible, patient, fluid, gentle, and malleable. Challenge yourself to inflict and receive new levels of pain (and maybe even pleasure) using the most tender, quiet, delicate, […]

Knife play 101 with Kanan

The Loft 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, United States

Interested in bringing a knife to a kink scene? This class will be an overview of knife play including safety and cleaning, different types of knives, ways to incorporate knife play into your scenes, sensation vs. cutting (blood play), how to negotiate a knife play scene, and what to do if things go wrong (first […]