What's in your emotional first aid kit? First coined by Guy Winch, the term emotional first aid refers to a set of skills used to respond to emotional injuries we ourselves or others may experience. The first responses to a situation can drastically affect the outcome, whether it's responding to your partner losing their job, […]
The trials and tribulations of anyone who travels in the field of the fetish world can be very daunting and enlightening. Based on one man’s experience, this is very challenging, yet meaningful in terms of how to handle himself in the throes of BDSM as well as taking those lessons and applying it to regular, […]
Energy play is a play provides a way to amplify the sensations you experience with your partner(s) so the focus is on the connection and the flow of energy instead of facilitating a temporary peak of pleasure. This class is designed to cover the flow of energy through rope. Binding ourselves with what beats through […]
Join the femme dominance group as we tour the Museum of Sex. Goddess_Narcissa will lead a walk through the history and evolution of human sexuality, viewing the uniquely curated exhibits. Meet up at 7pm. Our reserved entry time will be at 7:30pm. Plan to be visually entertained for 2 hours. We are receiving a discounted […]
Because of the holiday, the meeting shifts to the 4th Monday this month. Open to all current members. This is a hybrid meeting; held in person in Manhattan and online. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on Feb 1. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not […]
Wanna hit em’ where it hurts? Of course you do! Join us as we explore the various deliciously devious ways to torture your favorite fleshy duo. We'll discuss intimately the details of anatomy and functions. Learn why people are drawn to this play, the risks involved focusing on safety tips, and choosing CBT toys and […]
No better way to kick the winter blahs than hanging out with kinky folks! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the final Wednesday. Come join us! Wednesday, February 28th 7:30pm Skylight Diner 402 W 34th St. (@ 9th […]
Join Ramon for a celebration of the rich history of caning as a form of corporal punishment throughout the world. Learn about the materials, vendors, and resources for this simple, yet oh so versatile and fun method of inducing pain. You’ll also learn various methods for precision striking of various parts of your partner's body. […]
Warning Signs and Red Flags: how do you decide if a Dominant is right for you? This class will be a mix of storytelling and discussion. Learn to navigate the dynamics of submissive relationships by identifying red flags and signs in Dominant Women. Gain insights from three decades of a submissive's experience to make informed […]
This introductory class discusses being a trauma-aware kinkster. From being awareness of spacing and distance to setting up a play space and write advertisements for events, all kinksters can use trauma-informed mindfulness to create safer spaces. You will learn what trauma is (and what it isn't), how it happens, about trauma dumping, trauma reactions, post-traumatic […]