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Dehumanizing a partner can be a very dark activity or it can be very fun and cute. Doll play, normally considered a subset of dehumanization play, can also go either way. We will focus on transforming a partner, regardless of gender, or yourself into a decorative toy, as well as enjoying and enhancing this unique […]

Does your body or mind differ from others? Do you want to fly in rope but are wheelchair bound? Many of us live with different disabilities, including xioayi. With a bit of creativity and effort, we can find a way for people to enjoy any kinky activity, with some accommodation. Let's explore some of our […]

People participate in Bondage, Discipline, and Sadism/Masochism, and do so while not knowing the potential legal pitfalls. It is time to get down to brass tacks. What legal dangers are inherent to what it is we do? The simple truth is, legal issues abound when it comes to participating in BDSM and always have. It […]

Whether you’re a masochistic power bottom or a shy service slut, you know bottoming requires skill–skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. Written specifically for s-types who want to broaden their knowledge base, this two-hour discussion includes my best tips for both new and experienced submissives alike. We’ll discuss your responsibilities as a bottom to […]

What happens when you combine multiple people, intense emotions and commitments, AND shifting power dynamics between everyone SIMULTANEOUSLY? Often it's a big mess! But with understanding of boundaries, good resource management, and clear vision, you CAN have it all! First we review the various forms of non monogamy and power and authority transfer dynamics, and […]

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Being desired is one of the most powerful feelings we as humans have. It affirms us, validates us and turns us on. We crave objectification. Are you strong enough to admit it? Whether you want to be the object of their desire or a physical object they can use and abuse, objectification is a natural […]

Fisting may not be for everyone but those who are curious might find a new plateau of orgasms they never knew existed. When done safely, like all things in kink, it can be a new thing to add to your toy bag so to speak. I love the connection that I often have with my […]

Anyone can peg, and anyone can be pegged. In this class, you'll learn how to do both! You don't need a prostate to enjoy this workshop. This workshop is designed for first-timers who want to start from the very basics. We'll get you going so you feel confident and safe trying it on your own. […]