Open to all current members.  Information on how to join was distributed to the membership on Jan 1.  If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please email secretary@tes.org

Conflict can be scary, but it doesn't have to be. In fact, it can be a catalyst for greater growth and connection. What's important is how you handle it. Based on supported research from several fields, this class cuts through the extra stuff and the conventional advice to cover interpersonal skills for conflict management such […]

This class will teach several ties, from a simple chest harness to a full body harness, where the bottom’s arms are free from ropes. It’s wonderful for those who struggle with nerve issues in their arms or shoulder problems. @Kinbaku_Studio has been practicing the art of rope bondage for over 14 years. They have attended […]

Happy New Year! Start off the year right, socializing with some kinky friends! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the final Wednesday. Come join us! Wednesday, January 31st 7:30pm Skylight Diner 402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave) […]

TES is doing our first BIPOC Social and those who identify as BIPOC are invited to join us! The gathering will be taking place on Thursday, February 1 at The Center, located at 208 W 13 St in Manhattan. TES is sponsoring this event so all you need to bring is a smile! If you […]

The Therapeutic Flame! Class is a combination of lecture and demonstration. Topics include: technique planning, torch management, and numerical feedback. The Venn Diagram of Fire, Body-scapes, Application Patterns, Torch Swapping Techniques, Planning Ahead and Efficient use of Burn Cycles, Utilizing Specialized Torches, Creating Mind Fucks, Playing with Pain, Negotiations and Scene Setup. Demonstrations will be […]

What's in your emotional first aid kit? First coined by Guy Winch, the term emotional first aid refers to a set of skills used to respond to emotional injuries we ourselves or others may experience. The first responses to a situation can drastically affect the outcome, whether it's responding to your partner losing their job, […]

The trials and tribulations of anyone who travels in the field of the fetish world can be very daunting and enlightening. Based on one man’s experience, this is very challenging, yet meaningful in terms of how to handle himself in the throes of BDSM as well as taking those lessons and applying it to regular, […]

Energy play is a play provides a way to amplify the sensations you experience with your partner(s) so the focus is on the connection and the flow of energy instead of facilitating a temporary peak of pleasure. This class is designed to cover the flow of energy through rope. Binding ourselves with what beats through […]

Join the femme dominance group as we tour the Museum of Sex. Goddess_Narcissa will lead a walk through the history and evolution of human sexuality, viewing the uniquely curated exhibits. Meet up at 7pm. Our reserved entry time will be at 7:30pm. Plan to be visually entertained for 2 hours. We are receiving a discounted […]