This meeting is held twice yearly for the purpose of conducting official organization business and giving the membership an opportunity to be directly involved in that process. All members in good standing are entitled to attend and participate in all of these functions. The link to participate will be sent in your TES email newsletter […]

Join TES and Odile for a FREE open social night!  Come and discuss whatever is on your mind!  Free and open to all! To join, click here! You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or […]

The weather is warm and the nights are getting hot! It's downright vernal out there, so come celebrate with TES at our monthly munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! Come join us!   Thursday, April 27th, at 7:30pm at the Skylight Diner […]

Specific examples of techniques to improve your communication skills. Hint: listen first. One of the challenges is that almost every relationship question is answered with "Communicate." What people seldom do is give you dieas on how to communicate. That is what this class does. Not every possibility is explored, but some good starting points for […]

Do you have multiple dynamics or roles you like to play with your partner(s)? This workshop is built to help partners successfully negotiate and navigate relationships of 2+ with various power exchange structures. Using communication styles such as key words and body language, learn where to draw clear lines and where to leave things open […]

For those who have only just made their Fet account or been out to a single munch. This class is a safe space for those new to the scene to ask their "dumb" questions. Because there are no dumb questions when you are new and trying to get oriented in this new and very complicated […]

BEDROC is my acronym for how I am living my life again, after a long hiatus. It is a mix of a friend's philosophy plus my own philosophy I knew of for 13 years and actively lived for 5. The last 8 years? It became less and less until I lost myself, lost the respect […]

If you've been in kink for any length of time, it's likely that you've experienced or seen someone else experience drop. But what causes it? How is it treated, other than aftercare? And how can severe drop be prevented? In easy-to-understand language, this class explains these concepts and more. You will better understand your personal […]