Open to all current members.  Information on how to join was distributed to the membership on September 1.  If you are a member and did not receive this information, please contact secretary@tes.org

So we just met a hot Dominant or Submissive in the Dungeon. We'd love to play with them, but we don't want it to just be about Top & Bottom. We want to play with power, with intention. We're feeling that connection and want to explore it further. How do we do this? How do […]

Never set foot inside a play space? Want to know a little about the weird, wild and sexy things you might find in there? Looking for some guidance on how to approach someone in the dungeon - whether for play or just to tell them how cool their flogger is? This class will cover the […]

Whether you’re a masochistic power bottom or a shy service slut, you know bottoming requires skill–skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. Written specifically for s-types who want to broaden their knowledge base, this two-hour discussion includes my best tips for both new and experienced submissives alike. We’ll discuss your responsibilities as a bottom to […]

Summer has come to a close, and school is back in session, and we're having visions of plaid skirts, knee socks, and ruler-wielding disciplinarians. So why not come and matriculate with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! Come join […]

This class will discuss how Poly while being part of family with kids of different ages. There are different ways to handle coming out to your kids. We'll also cover dealing with when and how to introduce your partners if you want them to be involved in your family life and how this can vary […]

Come join us and meet the candidates for this year's TES elections in this live online town hall. This is your opportunity to ask questions and find out where each candidate stands on the important issues affecting TES and the greater kink scene in 2020. The link to participate will be sent in your TES […]

Companionship, how one accompanies another, can be a wonderful addition to the service tasks one might provide or receive. While often discussed as a feature of service relationships, this class gives companion service its full focus. Through stories and maybe a few laughs, InquisitiveElle shares his experiences in negotiating, developing, and addressing struggles in companion […]

This meeting is held twice yearly for the purpose of conducting official organization business and giving the membership an opportunity to be directly involved in that process. The fall meeting, usually held in October, is also when officers for the organization are elected. All members in good standing are entitled to attend and participate in […]

A discussion of the intersection of our lives, laws, and technology. Topics covered will include email, passwords, selfies, and more! Class includes both practical advice, policy, and resources for further reading. Joe Cool is a queer, polyamorous switch who enjoys a variety of kinky activities. He’s been a happy, occasionally active member of the DC/Baltimore […]