The “Areas of Control” are sections of a person's life in which authority can be exercised. The categories are divided by type. They include things like medical decisions, hair color, educational opportunities, diet and many more. This quick reference guide lays out each “area” and its subsequent categories. It is designed to get you thinking […]
Open to all current members. Information on how to join will be distributed to the membership on March 1. If you are a member, did not receive this information, and want to join, please email secretary@tes.org.
Join us for this blowjob workshop designed to take your skills to the next level! We’ll start with an anatomy lesson that I guarantee will be much more interesting (and inclusive!) than the one you probably got in high school. Then we’ll go on to discuss enough hand and mouth techniques that you’re sure to […]
If you've ever heard the phrase "you're too ___ for bondage" this class is probably for you. We'll cover a variety of bondage methods that can be used for different ability statuses in a fluid class structure so we can address individual concerns as they arise. Be sure to bring your favorite bondage tools whether […]
After a brief interruption, TES's monthly munch is back! Come join us as winter thaws into spring! Whether you're new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we're excited to see you! The munch will be at: Thursday, March 24th, at 7pm at the Skylight Diner 402 W 34th St. (@ 9th […]
Female Led dynamics have always had a significant place in not only historical influences but have had cultural impact as well. From royal dynasties to empirical rule, women have always possessed the ability to stimulate change and sometimes to even incite war. While not the standard hetro-normative relationship construct within what is seen as “modern” […]
Dan and dawn, authors of the books Living M/s and The Polyamory Toolkit lead an interactive class on how to successfully combine polyamory and power exchange! From when the commonly accepted ideals of these relationship types seem to come into conflict, to keeping power exchange healthy in the midst of new relationship energy, as well […]
We want to leave people feeling hot and bothered, not just...bothered. Every community has its own unspoken rules and etiquette, and kink is no exception. This course covers asking people to play, accepting and declining play invitations, and how to forge new friendships and relationships. We’ll also cover some tricky situations as well as basic […]
Open to all current members. Information on how to join has already been distributed to the membership. If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please contact secretary@tes.org
Just as there are different ways people express and receive love, there are different ways people express and receive dominance and submission! Just as knowing your partner’s love languages are important for them to feel loved, knowing your partner’s D/s languages are important for what makes the feel their respective headspace. Learn the different D/s […]