ONLINE – Breaking Out; Making Dominance Easier for Womxn* with xSolaris

So, you want to try being a Domme**? Or maybe you’re no stranger to the Left-side-of-the-slash, but want to use awareness to take your skills to the next level. Perhaps you’re a Dom and notice a lack of Dommes at events you attend or are a submissive/bottom wondering how to support the FemDom community’s growth. Whatever your interest, join us for a 2-hour-long introduction*** to helping womxn and those socialized as female* explore their Big Letter side(s) comfortably and authentically.

This class is for everyone; those new to kink and the experienced, the 24/7’ers and the occasional dabblers, both the Left and right sides of the slash, and all genders. We will break down what evidence-based practices and research have to lend to these situations in mindful ways that anyone can implement.

Topics include:

Growing Up a Girl — The impact of gender socialization on kink role exploration (including intersectional influences).
Media, Models, and Mistresses — Common messages/stereotypes about womxn, power, sexuality, and kink and common reactions.
Discovering You — Cultivating your authentic Left side as a conscious choice, not a reaction.
Taking Back Your Authentic Power — Exploring practical tips for recognizing and actively receiving power in your everyday life.
The Golden Formula — Practical tips for lowering the barrier of entry, overcoming fears and insecurities, freezing up, setting boundaries, creating scenes, selecting play partners, selecting roles/identities, and building your soft and hard skills.
Where Did All the Domme’s Go? — Tips for communities and those not socialized as womxn on gaining the skills and awareness necessary to make space for Dominant womxn.
Listen Up — Real stories of growth, exploration, and breaking out of social norms to find authenticity and understanding.
Questions may be submitted beforehand to the presenter, and a short Q&A will follow.

*Including trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, gender non-conforming, agender people, etc. In short, anyone who has previously experienced or currently experiences the social phenomenon of “being treated like a girl.”

**Or any other Left-side-of-the-slash role/identity/title.

***Many of these topics are inherently quite complex and nuanced and it is impossible to cover every facet in this limited time. This class will therefore serve as a jumping point for further learning and growth.

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To register:

MEMBERS -$10

1. Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
2. To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.

If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

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You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.